Difficulties for couples looking for a third for a mfm. Trying to get the man whom your wife/partner has chosen from the contenders while at a bar/club, seems to be getting more nuanced and prone to failure. Either they show all the interest in the world, but never even approach, or could be going great and they chicken out right before everyone leaves. We have even gotten back to the room, when he just vanished almost running for the door.
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Sometimes we never get to the bar/club. We plan a meet-n-greet and they suddenly disappear!
Have definitely been there before
I enjoy meeting the husband first for the initial hello while the wife glances over pretending not to see us. Then husband and wife get to talk a few minutes before eventually meeting both together for a nice flirty chat. I like to keep it polite and respectful with some class. Then keep in touch and plan something we all enjoy. 😊 it’s a scary-fun to put oneself out there so a little humor helps ease tension and smiles are what makes this work. It’s best to allow time to understand we are all real people and not in an automatic porn flick - but I don’t mind being on video. It’s a fantasy that sometimes comes true.
Like we pointed out before, anymore it seems like you used to be able to find whatever you were looking for in bars and nightclubs. But anymore these very trying sites seem to be our only hope
it was a great point. and such an interesting topic
I’m visualizing the fool getting to your room then running off! Crazy!
It sure was! I think he got intimidated by husband. He text a few days later wanting to try again.. and I wouldn't hear of it.. his loss
@Happycouple20385 Definitely his loss. Wonder why your hub intimidated him? Heck maybe YOU intimidated him! 😉
@betwnurthighs2 I'm a full 5'0 so I can't intimidate too many people 🤣🤣
@Happycouple20385 Yeah but you’re sexy and just that can scare some wimpy guys I guess.
@betwnurthighs2 I think living up to the talk is not something the internet generation is good at
@Happycouple20385 That’s a good point and may be true. Gotta get out there and experience life!
@betwnurthighs2 touch grass
@Happycouple20385 Exactly! And ass 🤪
@betwnurthighs2 whenever consensual, yes
@Happycouple20385 Of course! 😉