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rm_jetsetter63 52 M
4  questions
Searching for one special lady - 6/4/2008

Im here and I find it very hard to even get noticed by any of the women.I have been told that Im a handsome Italian man.Im a good man who truly seeks one woman only for the rest of my life here on earth.I came to this country from Venice italy.I wish so much, to find a caring female, who would enjoy seeing my home in Venice.As well as a travel companion, I seek long term.I might be on the wrong ...

9 response(s), 10 votes
rm_yurPhantaC1 52 F
1  question
The ol' Green Eyed Monster #2 - 6/4/2008

Ok, I've given some advice a few times but never asked for any so please be patient with me. Yeah, I posted this in articles by mistake and then realized what I had done so I am reposting it here in questions since that is in fact what it is. Sorry about the woopsie.

A few of you may recognize me, and some may not but I am separated and dating only, not looking for sex at ...


15 response(s), 18 votes
TreBoy832 40 M
1  question
Awkward first dates - 6/4/2008

Have you ever had one? When you have met a person for the first time, talked with him/her for a moment and realized that there is no connection between you two and ended up sitting and waiting the date to end?

When you see that it can never work for you and the other person, do you say it out loud the moment you know he/she isn't the right one for you or do you try to keep up the ...

17 response(s), 25 votes
LonelymwmNSC 70 M
6  questions
Pubic hair - 6/4/2008

Ladies, What happened to the neatly trimmed pubic hair? Most ladies now days are shaved. Why is this?

Men, What type of pubic hair do you liketo see on you women? 1. Shaved 2. Trimmed 3 Brazilan 4 au natural

38 response(s), 44 votes
rm_buddaluv67 49 M
8  questions
Another question for the ladies - 6/4/2008

I don't make graphic sexual requests in my initial emails because I'm not crass. But when I try to keep them PG and just try to get to know the person, I don't get a lot, if any replies either.

What sort of content do you look for in a greeting? What catches your eye?

Thank you in advance.

19 response(s), 24 votes
sexlovingman2 52 M
2  questions
Do you ladies like - 6/4/2008

Do you ladies like to be kissed, licked and sucked without having sex and for how long do you like that?

15 response(s), 15 votes
_JKH_ 69 M
454  questions
When was your last bedroom date? - 6/4/2008

Sometimes they are the best dates aren't they? ...

22 response(s), 44 votes
thefly1001 55 C
4  questions
why is it - 6/3/2008

why is it that alot of singles or couples state in their cupid setting that they are looking for a certain gender, then when you read the profile it stats something else ..... is it just to be on the search ... lol

24 response(s), 28 votes
eejit_nz 50 F
6  questions
Foreign accents - 6/3/2008

I know I'm not alone in having a 'thing' for accents, but I'm not even sure what the attraction is. Maybe it's just the allure of something different from the 'norm'?

If you also find forgeign accents a turn-on, please share your thoughts as to why you like them.

Would also love to know which accents really do it for you. Maybe even which ones (if any) are a turn off too. ...

28 response(s), 35 votes
Another bisexual question - 6/3/2008

I read quesions almost daily on how to persue a bisexual relation. My question is, has anyone fulfilled their bisexual rondezvue and then regretted it? Was the tryst unfulfilling, or did it come back to haunt you in another way?

10 response(s), 15 votes
anohioguy4fun 49 M
1  question
Female Pictures - 6/3/2008

This a follow up to the 10, 000 questions posted on dick pics. Let's turn the tables. Why do so many women post graphic nude shots with genital and nipple closeups? Do they really need to?

I have some ideas of course, but I'd like to hear the conventional wisdom.

Thanks!

25 response(s), 28 votes
luckymoonrabbit 69 M
36  questions
Bad Boys ...watcha gonna do, when they come for you? - 6/3/2008

.....So ladies, you get this email, its so different from the rest...hard to believe, so eloquent, humorous, and polite, but sexy...hard to believe...this could just be the right one.

...You arrange a meet, gosh, you say to yourself...so handsome too...

...After meeting a few times, you trust him enough to meet at his house, for the first encounter.

...Arriving early, ...

19 response(s), 44 votes
vegasangel0125 41 C
10  questions
How long do you wait? - 6/3/2008

I know this is a sex site, but I just can't jump into bed with just anyone. Lots of people complain because people want to take it slow. I like to chat and get to know someone before meeting. So my question is, how long should one chat with someone before deciding to meet to see how it goes? Why are all the people on this site in such a hurry?

18 response(s), 29 votes
Ladyhumpsdd 38 C
3  questions
Single men out there. - 6/3/2008

We all know that this site is flooded with single men and that they get a bad wrap. But honestly if you are looking to hook up at least you can be a little more polite. Why is it that men on this site act rude or are very pushy? Any thoughts to this?

23 response(s), 21 votes
Ladyhumpsdd 38 C
3  questions
Video and Picture Taking - 6/3/2008

Often times since we work all the time we play separate. So I often ask my Gf to take pics or even video the event. What are your takes on this? How many people out there do this? Would you given the chance?

10 response(s), 13 votes
itzchic824 37 F
37  questions
How picky are you on here? - 6/3/2008

I used to not be very picky at all. I would meet up with someone that we didn't even click.

But because I look for friends with benefits, I now have become more selective about who I meet. If they don't have some things in common with me (that would be the friends part of friends with benefits) then I don't have much interest in them. Some guys who are looking for friends with benefits ...

12 response(s), 19 votes
josmith5 61 M
27  questions
dining out - 6/3/2008

what is your favorite type of food/meal for dining out? why?how often do you go get it?

15 response(s), 19 votes
rm_19chooch 55 M
1  question
shaving - 6/3/2008

hi ive recently shaved my penis and sack for the first time in a very long time, this feels great but, and its a big BUT, how can i stop it itching??? my ball sack is very itchy after two or three days, daily shaving isnt an option as i work away a lot and sometimes the bathroom is little more than a metal bowl and cold water. if you have never shaved your sack it feels realy very good, try it!!! ...

25 response(s), 23 votes
josmith5 61 M
27  questions
COLOR; what is your favorite color,why? - 6/3/2008

what is your favorite color?why? how does it make you feel? also what color eyes do you have? has your favorite color always been your favorite?or has it changed?

14 response(s), 15 votes
rm_gowildsafely 42 F
4  questions
Thoughts on Piercings? - 6/3/2008

Hey all... I'm just looking to see what everyone thinks of piercings...particularly nipple piercings?

Of the men and women that I've been with who've had them I have loved them! So very sexy to me...but what do you think?

If you have them done, what do you think? Your experience? Your pain?

Anything?

The nips are next on "my list" to be done...

16 response(s), 18 votes
chocman26 48 M
14  questions
Cleaniness.... - 6/3/2008

I got a issue/question.I have met a few women on here that weren`t smelling to proper in that area and i couldnt continue with the date.If i was a woman... i would think that i would check myself before hooking up with a guy.I am pretty sure or i hope that all of us fellas take a shower to make sure that we are doing our part.I myself always take a long hot shower and always use colonge before ...

15 response(s), 24 votes
chocman26 48 M
14  questions
Traveling... - 6/3/2008

I am in located in the middle of California(Fresno, CA to be exact).Most Women that are on here are between 150-300 miles.Would that be strange to go that far to have fun with someone and How far would you travel to see someone???

13 response(s), 21 votes
rm_Sparkels74 41 F
3  questions
Does it really turn a man on, when the women he is having sex with it very loud and vocal? - 6/2/2008

Just curious to see if men really like vocal women and if so how vocal.

I myself and very vocal, moans, groans, talking. I don't usually scream, but I have on a few occasions. My most recent ex boyfriend loved it so much that it would make him cum, so I had to be careful if I didn't want the fun to end so soon.

Thoughts people....

20 response(s), 27 votes
Voyeurs - 6/2/2008

I'm new to the community, figured I'd take a moment to say hello to everybody.... uuh, hi.



So, my question.

Wheres the line between voyeurism and being a peeping tom? (lets go ahead and get the "hiding in the bush" out of the way)

It came up in a conversation, and I'd like to hear other peoples opinions.

Thanks in advance.

8 response(s), 18 votes
SexiLuvinGirl 61 F
81  questions
Tattoos On Women? Yes or No? - 6/2/2008

I happen to like tattoos and find them sexy if you have them done in good taste. I actually like tattoos on men. I don't, personally, have any, but do want to get a couple.

I, also would like opinions as to whether you feel a tattoo would affect the possibility of one being hired for a job?

Tattoos or No tattoos on women or does it matter?

What's your opinion?

20 response(s), 41 votes
rm_Jester3502 28 M
1  question
Cheating? - 6/2/2008

Ok this is my question. I am a married man but sence i have been married my sex life sucks. I hardly ever get layed and it has lost its pazaz totally when it does happen.

So my question is, is it totally wrong to be want to meet someone to fullfill me sexually even though i really do still love my wife very much, i just want someone to have a little fun with.

what do you think

32 response(s), 52 votes
itzchic824 37 F
37  questions
Do all women have a G-spot? - 6/2/2008

I sound so naive asking this, but I figured this is the best place to get some answers.

I seriously have never felt that spot that every claims is the magic spot. Not with a guy and not by myself.

So I was wondering if every woman has one?

I wonder also if this may be part of the reason I haven't had an orgasm either.

16 response(s), 23 votes
HotMochaIce 52 F
17  questions
Sex? - 6/2/2008

I am trying to get as many opinions about this as possible, so please speak up.



Is giving a blow job having sex? I consider it forelay, like being fingered. Some people say because it's called "oral sex, " it's sex. Some say because an orgasm can be achieved, it's sex. If that's the case, is fingering sex? What do yall think??



Shay
...

18 response(s), 25 votes
JigglesgigglesBl 68 F
29  questions
Opening Mail.. - 6/2/2008

Over the weekend I have had a problem..I can go anyplace on the site..No problem..But, When I go to the mail page..It freezes on me..I know a couple weeks back some were having problems with opening mail..Can anyone tell me what you did to get this problem fixed.. Thanks, Jig

15 response(s), 6 votes
rm_19harley86 67 M
19  questions
Blocked - 6/2/2008

If you are "honest" in your intentions, how do you get "someone" to belive you?

16 response(s), 24 votes