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Freak698286 41 C
2  questions
How far is too far - 1/15/2020

What happens when someone doesn't obey your rules??

1 response(s), 2 votes
dangbitches 58 F
35  questions
Little Confused Bling - 1/15/2020

I read the bling manager, I don't have time to make bling at this time. I tried to use the chickens I got as a gift all that came up were the numbers. I went back to see if I copied it wrong and they are gone. When I select the bling on my profile it takes me to the maker. How can I use bling? I'm not understanding it I guess. I like my chickens they are sweet and can come in handy ...

19 response(s), 23 votes
LisaSuxDix 46 F
1  question
Why did my gold membership go away - 1/15/2020

Why did gold membership go away

33 response(s), 38 votes
Senior sizzle? - 1/15/2020

Has anyone got some information on site called " senior sizzle" ?? Thank you in advance!

23 response(s), 15 votes
tightsmoothfuck 30 M
11  questions
Are douche's bad for you? - 1/15/2020

And I'm not talking about the asshole kind <br><br> I've been using douches ever since I realized I loved get nailed, but I'm hearing that they might be bad for you in the long run. I've heard that all you need is a fiber diet clean yourself so there are no accidents during . But, I'm scared not use it before I hook up. <br><br> What do you guys ...

5 response(s), 8 votes
t145m 62 M
1  question
points - 1/15/2020

what's the quickest way to pile up points

25 response(s), 22 votes
nehouguy 46 C
1  question
Free Chats? - 1/14/2020

Didn't this used to give you a few free chats , on the house, every day?

38 response(s), 34 votes
Rockforddaddie1 35 M
1  question
This is just a test. - 1/14/2020

Looking for - reply get some of your own!

25 response(s), 27 votes
thus ???? - 1/14/2020

Discussion topics are for original material written by members. Any plagiarized material will be removed from the site. Als

10 response(s), 13 votes
ch3rryp13 33 F
2  questions
TEST QUESTION - 1/14/2020

This is a test. Please ignore.

33 response(s), 39 votes
SiteSupport 36 C
3  questions
TEST QUESTION - 1/14/2020

This is a test. Please ignore.

18 response(s), 18 votes
riversidecpl4cpl 66 C
46  questions
Testimonials [certifications] - 1/14/2020

Testimonial Description In promotion and of advertising, a testimonial consists of a person's written or spoken statement extolling the virtue of a product. <br><br> In this case the product is the profile. The virtue is their existence. <br><br> <br><br> One of the best ways we have used to find "real people" is sadly abused to the point of ...

16 response(s), 22 votes
Drazoth 25 M
1  question
Is the Content Filter acting up for anyone else? - 1/14/2020

I've got my content filter set "everything", yet it blocks images as if it where set "some nudity". Is this happening anyone else? Or does anyone know of a fix?

23 response(s), 15 votes
lake1997 60 M
1  question
why is it so hard to hook up on here ? - 1/14/2020

I mean really . it's even hard get someone chat on , I mean if you are on isn't that why you are on it ?

50 response(s), 37 votes
Justlookin19974 49 M
5  questions
Points???? - 1/13/2020

How does the system on here really work? I have over 1900pts and can not redeem any of them. Please help me?

38 response(s), 42 votes
Ziost113 35 M
1  question
To speak sexy or not? - 1/13/2020

Hi ladies. I'm curious when someone tries to talk to you, do you prefer them starting talking about sex on here or not? Some women seem to be angered by it even though this is a sex site. Am I wrong?

45 response(s), 33 votes
tightsmoothfuck 30 M
11  questions
Is he gay if he loves fucking my ass? - 1/12/2020

I have a straight and married guy that loved fuck from time time. He calls himself straight, but the dude loves ass, so I'm thinking he's bi but won't admit it. Maybe he likes being in a straight relationship but loves fucking tight ass? IT's honestly not a big deal, but I'm curious. <br><br> What do you think?

54 response(s), 40 votes
Where did you get the idea - 1/11/2020

Is there a local connection

1 response(s), 0 votes
Tiim_1979 41 M
1  question
why message if your not going to continue after "hello" - 1/11/2020

I've been getting a few IM's, then after I reply, nothing. Is this common on here? I'm not saying anything offensive. just a simple greeting returning the "hello". anyway, just seeing if anyone else has this happen a lot.

73 response(s), 73 votes
InUrReach 59 M
1  question
Do you squirt ??? - 1/11/2020

I have never had sex more than a few times with a lady where is didn't squirt. All women can , why don't more ??

73 response(s), 101 votes
LatinLeprechaun7 53 F
8  questions
Put It In A Poll - 1/10/2020

We have all read questions, here in the advice section, that would be better suited as a poll. Since, I'm the curious sort I looked in the section that had polls and it seems that unless you have a blog you can not create a poll. Am I overlooking something? Can members create a poll without having a blog? Thank you in advance for your replies. Happy New Year! Not Bling Owner...

36 response(s), 79 votes
MarkCorona84u 44 M
3  questions
Points contributed - 1/10/2020

Is there a function that allows someone to “” to you? Has anyone ever received from an admirer??

34 response(s), 43 votes
MarkCorona84u 44 M
3  questions
Finding fun on the road - 1/10/2020

Do you change your overall location or do you just put travel location in when you travel and try to find fun?

26 response(s), 39 votes
MarkCorona84u 44 M
3  questions
Travel - 1/10/2020

Best way to connect via Gay Male Finder when you are traveling for business? Any advice would be welcome!

23 response(s), 20 votes
Milfs - 1/10/2020

Where should I go to meet older women? It's difficult to know where to meet them when you're than they are.

30 response(s), 42 votes
Real or Otherwise - 1/10/2020

What percentage of the people are on this site do you think are genuine? The reason I ask is that the 'known' people have viewed my profile or 'hotlisted' me are ALL in the 30-35 age group and generally live thousands of miles away! Thankfully they are all women but each to their own.My guess is the genuine people on here will be lucky to be at 50-60%

36 response(s), 40 votes
MercedCouple209 53 C
3  questions
Pegging and homophobic men - 1/9/2020

In case you missed it, or this is the first time you’re hearing about this empowering sex act, pegging is when a woman wears a strap-on dildo and penetrates her partner anally. Usually, pegging is often reserved to describe the act between heterosexual couples, so it’s a woman flipping the traditional gender dynamic and “banging” the man. <br><br> Are you really that homophbic

42 response(s), 76 votes
Pullmytrigger56 52 M
1  question
Today - 1/9/2020

Is it thursday yet?

24 response(s), 31 votes
bacchettina 54 M
2  questions
group masturbation - 1/9/2020

is a dream or a nightmare?

51 response(s), 72 votes
bacchettina 54 M
2  questions
group masturbation - 1/9/2020

is a dream or a nightmare?

5 response(s), 6 votes