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rm_lipsifer88 29 M
1  question
The Ex effect - 6/14/2008

About two months ago my gf and i broke up and i thought i did a good job of making the split and ending it. I move on start messing around with other people but in the back of my head it keep thinking i was making a mistake just cause the sex was so great. So a party comes around and we are there we both have a couple of drinks and end up have sex next day we realized how akward it was. We both ...

23 response(s), 24 votes
Dallaspleasures 50 M
2  questions
Your "trick"! - 6/14/2008

I believe everyone has a sexual "trick". It's the one thing, position, way you do in bed that you have mastered and usually gives your partner freat enjoyment. now i was speaking to a friend about this and says she doesn't have one. never really experimented. so my question is, do most peope have a "trick" or maybe more than one? if so, xan you share yours? maybe give someone a new idea to try ...

19 response(s), 25 votes
rm_sxsrch3 32 M
34  questions
How do you know when? - 6/14/2008

How do you know when to ask a MOS on a date? How do you know if the MOS is attracted to you? MOS = Member of the Opposite Sex.

16 response(s), 18 votes
Babesunited 26 M
1  question
What do you see as the most important in a partner? - 6/14/2008

I know this has been done before but ill start a new one



- Personality - Looks - Physique - Cock size/breast size - Hair

or anymore you have

i would be interested to know

15 response(s), 16 votes
I didn't go! - 6/14/2008

A very old friend of mine passed on the 4th... I met him when I was 18! the relationship had its ups and downs.... I have been trying to think of the good times... but all I can think about is him hitting me... giving me a bloody nose! taking him to the doctors waiting in the office... helping him get better so he could go fuck another chick! I try to think of our sex life... and that gives me ...

21 response(s), 48 votes
SexiLuvinGirl 61 F
81  questions
Gray Hair? Attractive; Distinquished or Dreading The Day! - 6/14/2008

Personally for me, I dread the day that my hair turns gray; or? That I let it "be" gray! I SO don't wanna grow old! The hair is the first show age! Grrrr....

I think a man with salt and pepper (gray) hair is very DISTINGUISHED looking!

Being a woman? I'm gonna color my hair as long as my arms with let me! lol....

A few questions that I wanna' throw out here to ...

21 response(s), 24 votes
rm_jack1954x 69 C
1  question
mfm - 6/14/2008

how do people deal with inevitable jealousy issues when involved in a threesome for the first time. even though in your head you think you can handle it, any advice?

13 response(s), 24 votes
nicco100 55 M
165  questions
LADIES WHAT WOULD - 6/14/2008

Your favorite kissing song be for that romantic night of making out on the couch.

7 response(s), 23 votes
rm_BM1S90 34 M
3  questions
The classic question......does size really matter? - 6/14/2008

The vast majority of women I have asked this question of almost always say "no, its how you use it".

Why than, I ask, are sex toys cast in sizes that would make your average thoroughbred hang his head in shame?

Can size help to compensate for poor form?

Can a truely teeny dick satisfy if used with expert precision?

14 response(s), 25 votes
Photos on profiles without your permission - 6/14/2008

When I was on here as a single female, I had a FFM with a male friend and a female friend of his. A good time was had by all and during the course of the evening quite a few naughty pics were taken. A couple of days later, they set up an account as a couple and used photos of that evening as their profile pics. I was under the impression that they were just for personal use. They never once ...

19 response(s), 19 votes
want2seemecack 45 M
1  question
get the guy off quicker - 6/13/2008

is it really true that if the guy has his ass played with he will get off quicker? what if they put the finger or whatever in his ass would that make him gay?

14 response(s), 9 votes
rm_sxsrch3 32 M
34  questions
Who pays? - 6/13/2008

If two or more people meet at a hotel/motel who pays for the room? The person who choose the hotel/motel? Split evenly?

9 response(s), 12 votes
rm_sxsrch3 32 M
34  questions
Best way to lose virginity???? - 6/13/2008

I am almost 24 and still a virgin. What is the best way to lose your virginity?

Any ideas, suggestions or tips?

16 response(s), 11 votes
Getting yourself off... - 6/13/2008

This is for the ladies and men. When you are masturbating what enhancers, lotions, oils, lubes, toys, locations seem to get you off the hardest???...

15 response(s), 17 votes
Misbehavn2 55 C
37  questions
hugging - 6/13/2008

so when i meet a woman a hug is the first thing i do i have very long arms and i like to wrap them around a woman when I'm hugging i will pull your whole body too me, my intent is not sexual but i like to let you know you've been hugged, is this not a good thing because i know that i have hugged woman that will stand back and not let me give full hug

9 response(s), 14 votes
EveryNightFever 29 M
2  questions
What is the best method for a guy to use when seeking a couple? - 6/13/2008

Just curious to hear some different opinions, Thanks

10 response(s), 18 votes
woodluv2pleseu2 58 M
88  questions
Open thread - 6/13/2008

I've noticed that the folks here wotk hard to give great advice, good personal opinions and just general good company to those of us who need adult input.







I figure you can use a break so, would you like to call me a name? Would yyou like to state a point? do you have a joke? well maybe not jokes, we could get in trouble for putting them in the wrong place. ...

13 response(s), 24 votes
Threesomes - 6/13/2008

We haven't had a threesome yet, but I was curious as to what kind of person(MFM) you all selected for your first encounter. Was it a friend or a stranger? Will being a little tipsy one evening and fooling around, the misses brought up a name from someone she had the hots for some time ago. She said she would be comfortable with him! What is you advice in said situation?

12 response(s), 8 votes
Just wondering? - 6/13/2008

How many people actually agree with this statement " age and looks don't matter" i've seen this posted in many profiles. (male profiles) and really wonder how can that be? would your really get with just anyone? Call me shallow but i gotta like what I'm fucking.

27 response(s), 28 votes
dental dams... - 6/13/2008

i have HPV (warts) and wonder if any of you have had any experience using a dental dam?? can women really tell what is going on if a guy is doing oral on her thru one of them?? when i looked them up i thought it didn't look like it would be a very pleasureable experience..giving up oral sex is really getting to me..actually giving up all sex is really getting to me..

anybody out there ...

5 response(s), 16 votes
NtrnationalLover 51 M
17  questions
Should I... - 6/13/2008

I met this guy and his wife about 3 yrs ago when I moved to Colorado and we became instant friends. After my divorce, she introduced me to friend of hers who I see from time to time. A couple of weeks ago, they invited me down for a party and it was decided I would spend the night so I wouldn't have to make the long drive home after a night of drinking and partying.

After everyone was ...

10 response(s), 19 votes
rm_chriserin2 42 C
2  questions
Threesomes, how do I make one happen? - 6/13/2008

Is it natural to fear rejection from some one of the same sex when trying to engage in a threesome? I'm so not that confident in the breaking the ice stage of getting to know some one enough to ask that person to join us. The fact that this is something I want for me hasn't givin me the confidence to just walk up to a woman at a party or gathering and say "Hey, want to join me in bed?" I ...

3 response(s), 14 votes
SexiLuvinGirl 61 F
81  questions
HMTL and Borders - I NEED HELP - 6/13/2008

I am familiar with html, but I CAN NOT FOR THE LIFE OF ME, FIGURE OUT HOW TO MAKE BORDERS ON HERE!

Any advice or codes that anyone has to offer would be appreciated.

1 response(s), 6 votes
_JKH_ 69 M
454  questions
High school fucking & sucking! - 6/13/2008

Were you getting some pussy/dick back in high school?

If so, on a regular basis?

Were ya worth a damn at it?
...

15 response(s), 47 votes
69lickitkissit69 52 M
2  questions
Rimming.......Taboo???Women do you expect it ?? - 6/13/2008

More and more in porn, Rimming seems to be a part of sex.Women, Do we lick it??

15 response(s), 24 votes
rm_blacstaff 42 M
1  question
Is this real? - 6/13/2008

I just want to know if this was a waste of time. I really don't need this site for sex however I would like it to help me find sexual partners that understand my sexuality. So I ask is this site real? Will I really find sex partners on here?

10 response(s), 23 votes
rm_othrwhtmeat 38 M
7  questions
personality type - 6/13/2008

This question is for members who have filled out the personality type part of their profile.

Mine happens to be the Mystic Writer. Normally I don't buy into that sort of thing. But even though I am not passionate about writing, I have been told I am very good at it. And I found I've made quite a few posts, mostly responses, in the short time I've been on this site, and posting was never ...

10 response(s), 22 votes
missing breasts - 6/13/2008

A friend has just lost both breasts to cancer. How would you (both men and women) feel about having sex with her. Please don't bother to tell me about breast reconstruction. For reasons I don't need to go into here, that's not an option.

12 response(s), 16 votes
SexiLuvinGirl 61 F
81  questions
Just Curious? Have You Ever Skinny Dipped? - 6/13/2008

I was just wondering how many people have really "ever" skinny dipped with a MOS?

Me? I never have! Yikes!

25 response(s), 23 votes
SexiLuvinGirl 61 F
81  questions
You May Not Realize It, but It's 100% true! - 6/13/2008

This should probably be taped to your bathroom mirror where one could read it every day.

You may not realize it, but it's 100% true.

1. There are at least two people in this world that you would die for.

2. At least 15 people in this world love you in some way.

3. The only reason anyone would ever hate you is because they want to be just like you.

4. A ...

14 response(s), 23 votes