I enjoy spending time with those who are special to me, sometimes going out and other times just staying in. I make a lot of acquaintances but I only have a few close friends. I'm more of a coffeehouse type than a bar or club type, though I like a good pub -- not a sports bar -- too. I love to just rent a movie and curl up under a blanket on the couch with someone nice and warm. I'm a music lover, both modern stuff and ancient history. My favorite bands are the Talking Heads, New Order, KMFDM, Ministry, and the Dead Kennedys. I'm also a fair guitar player and an OK singer. I like to be in control of the things in my life. I can let loose and have fun, and I'm definitely spontaneous, but I'm also very interested in getting ahead of the game. I've found the best way to do that is to make plans, stick to them, and be ready to adjust them in the face of change.

My Ideal Person My ideal woman is intelligent, caring, gentle, and interested in exploring her limits. I'm not into games, though, and if you're mad or upset you should have the courage to tell me why.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Sadomasochism, Light Bondage, Spanking, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Creativity/Kinkiness level

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