Looking for spontaneous exciting encounters, like two planets orbiting each other, pulling each other in closer and closer. Surrendering to passions. Letting natural desires control what we do. Feeling the attraction and slowly letting it pull you in. Letting the raw animalistic instincts take over. Open to long term FWB. I'm smart and I give good brain. So if you're looking for a good time and conversation too I'm knowledgeable on a wide variety of topics. I have big shoulders and strong arms. Most women like my smile because I look like I'm up to something. I keep myself in fairly good shape for my age. I own my home and live alone so we would have a nice private place to play. I'm a nice guy who is easy to get to know and easy to relax with. i have a great sense of humor so if you like to laugh you'll like me. I'm even done a little bit of stand up comedy. I'm also discrete. What happens in Gilroy stays in Gilroy. Think of my place as a parallel dimension where there are no rules and you can explore anything you want to do.

My Ideal Person Someone who wishes to explore her hidden (or not so hidden) desires. I like it when the passion is somewhat electric. Looking for someone who is easy going and relaxed and loves to live life. I'm really turned on by women who are really hot for it. So if you want to explore really letting go and that turns me on.

I'm not that picky about looks. I'm more turned on my raw desire. And age isn't an issue for me either but I tend towards women who are over 30 because they tend to actually show up and are more mature. How wet you are is more interesting to me that being a Barbie and generally I tend to think women are better looking that they think they are.

If you're shy that's ok too. Sometimes I think shy is a turn on because once I start touching you the shyness goes away. I'm very good with women who have never met a stranger before for an intimate encounter. So if this is new to you don't worry about it. You'll do just fine. Your body will know what to do.

All you have to do is relax and enjoy. Don't over think things. Don't worry about what it all means and the blah, blah, blah chatter in your mind. Just enjoy that I'm a man and you're a woman and do what men and women do.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
I like the feel of a woman's body as she surrenders herself
in orgasm. Losing control to me completely is something
I picture in my mind.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, An airplane, A dark back alley, A movie theatre, A remote wilderness spot, An elevator, A hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Mutual Masturbation, Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Massage

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I have cybersex quite often.

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