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fingering during oral - 4/19/2018

For both guys and girls: do you like to have your asshole fingered while receiving oral? Do you enjoy fingering your partner's asshole while giving oral?

24 response(s), 40 votes
willwants9 57 M
1  question
couples - 4/19/2018

why do some men pretend to be couples

17 response(s), 22 votes
TravelingMan524 71 M
33  questions
Would you like your partner to be more sexually adventurious ? - 4/18/2018

After 47 years of marriage things have gotten a bit boring in my life. Do others feel the same way? Would you like a little more zing for your thing? <br><br> . How satisfied are you?

16 response(s), 28 votes
antreas073 39 M
10  questions
hello - 4/18/2018

how are you all?

9 response(s), 5 votes
What is the best way to trouble shoot the instant messenger? - 4/18/2018

I'm noticing the messenger has a tendency to drop messages a lot and I'm curious what are the best ways to troubleshoot that or files a feedback report for technical support. I'm still new here and filling out my info little by little, but find it tough to deal with the technical issues of this website. Additionally, what is up with this points system for chatting? I somewhat get ...

13 response(s), 11 votes
Will you kiss. - 4/18/2018

Men will you kiss a women after she gives you head even if she swallows your load ? Women do you enjoy kissing the man after you give him head or will you kiss him after he goes down on you?

30 response(s), 26 votes
hot hot hot - 4/18/2018

how hot would it be to find some on here that is serious about meeting!?

9 response(s), 10 votes
who is serious - 4/18/2018

is there any on Gay Male Finder that is serious about meeting.. male of female??

8 response(s), 12 votes
sam197pulsar 37 M
71  questions
beggars on streets? - 4/18/2018

How can WE distinguish between beggars and somebody may be on the street for untill they find a shelter for the night? begging, reasons, and excuses remain the same.

12 response(s), 19 votes
lickemstickem15 51 M
1  question
Back page down - 4/18/2018

Have you noticed, since they shut down back page, more people are looking for FWB. Coincidence?

18 response(s), 22 votes
canuhearmenow86 62 M
1  question
Help ? - 4/18/2018

What does a guy have to do around here to get a drink ?

22 response(s), 16 votes
cody2422 75 M
1  question
Couple's Site - 4/17/2018

When I go the couple site here It's all men. Why in the fuck do I want to look at men are you trying to turn me gay. Fuck you Gay Male Finder

14 response(s), 18 votes
glensfallsbibttm 57 M
3  questions
Strap~on - 4/17/2018

Hello <br><br> How many females are into pegging? I'd LOVE to find just in my area(Upstate NY) for a FWB situation.

16 response(s), 43 votes
happydance1979 44 M
11  questions
Issues during having sex in public places? - 4/17/2018

like being robbed the bag just when having sex in a beach at night...

27 response(s), 27 votes
sam197pulsar 37 M
71  questions
How do they do this, they dont have to work? - 4/16/2018

There are mostly the same persons online and they post in A/L like crazy about everything..As if there is a reward when they do post so much.. Some of their profiles are always online, even some of their computers never switched off , for years..The real life is changed to an illusory world for them. How do they do this, they dont have to work ?

29 response(s), 46 votes
albanynycuckold 63 C
5  questions
willing to be tied,bound for group kink ? - 4/16/2018

yes and yea done it have you ?
...

23 response(s), 43 votes
GentTig 52 M
2  questions
What Chat Opening works best to get a response? - 4/16/2018

I send several conversation starts to interesting ladies on the IM. Most go no further than an a line under my welcome saying "delivered" but I never hear from most the ladies. I am trying different greeting but don't have a feel for what works.

20 response(s), 17 votes
wankforfun99 50 M
1  question
One off anonymous meets? - 4/16/2018

I'm sure we all fantasise about them but does anyone do them? Complete strangers, no names - just arrange on here to meet at a hotel for a few hours and then never see each other again.

24 response(s), 33 votes
happydance1979 44 M
11  questions
feeding your partner - 4/16/2018

hello! have you got any temptation of cumming on the food of your partner? you know! semen has a lot of vitamins, so it is good for the body

19 response(s), 36 votes
glensfallsbibttm 57 M
3  questions
This is for BI males. - 4/16/2018

In general guys, who gives better head. Men or Women?

12 response(s), 19 votes
rm_slave5769 46 M
10  questions
fuck me guys - 4/16/2018

who keen 2play now.xxxx

10 response(s), 25 votes
Gentlelover462 47 M
2  questions
New to uostate - 4/16/2018

Good morning is there any types of nudist or clubs in the area?

11 response(s), 8 votes
glensfallsbibttm 57 M
3  questions
Size - 4/16/2018

Simple question. Does size matter? Honest answers ladies (and men who love penetration)! I myself am a bit of a "size queen"!

23 response(s), 30 votes
sam197pulsar 37 M
71  questions
spotting trolls - 4/16/2018

How good are you at spotting trolls? Can you tell right away or do you have to be told?

13 response(s), 17 votes
Ahenry008 73 M
1  question
Gay or Bi? - 4/16/2018

At what what point in sexual experimentation do you consider someone to be Bi or Gay, after the first time or does it take a few more times to get that designation?

7 response(s), 14 votes
Strongsensual19 36 M
5  questions
Getting the juices flowing? - 4/15/2018

I know everyone has their own preferences that gets them turned on. Ladies what is the sexiest thing about a partner that gets you flowing almost every time?

6 response(s), 11 votes
CDjacklyn 30 T
2  questions
adding people - 4/15/2018

I am bi... I am married to an amazing man, but I enjoy female company from time to time(my husband present, of course) he likes to see me get fucked by other men... <br><br> he loves the idea of downgrading remarks(from me, I'm not that into it) and likes watching me take bigger than him(he's convinced that he's not enough, or likes to think it)... I have no problem ...

21 response(s), 34 votes
CDjacklyn 30 T
2  questions
swing - 4/15/2018

my libido has increased tenfold and my husband has always loved the idea of another man fucking me(we've tried before, not great expriences... mostly due to my previous lack of interest). I know have a legitimate interest and he continues to want it as well, but he expects me to constantly feed into what he wants to hear(anything downgrading) when I love our current sex life, I feel bad for ...

16 response(s), 27 votes
GentTig 52 M
2  questions
When did profiles become great movie trailers for bad movies? - 4/15/2018

You know what I talking about. You see a 2 minute trailer with suspense, action, and hints. You go to the movie to learn that all the good parts were on the commercial. The rest of the movie is just 88 minutes of filler and fluff. Same with a profile. You see an atrractive photo, read it closely, find common interests, contact, and hook up. Only to be driving home afterward wondering if it ...

21 response(s), 25 votes
Madur2316 35 M
2  questions
Thick or long - 4/15/2018

Do you prefer thick or long cocks if you had a choice between the two

7 response(s), 5 votes